What a wonderful gift Thanksgiving, a day for giving and expressing thanks, is for all of us. Anyone and everyone can participate in this day of gathering family and friends to share food and well wishes, taking time to reflect on the things we have been blessed with and are thankful for.
Giving thanks is a healing and healthy act that many of us have sadly reserved for this one special time of the year. Ignatius, the renown scholar and saint, offers us a powerful insight into the nature of why we suffer – and as it happens, it relates to giving thanks.
Ignatius said that “all suffering starts with ingratitude” – that when we lose our appreciation for all that we have and the many blessings each of our lives is bestowed with, we begin to seek, want and covet what others have been blessed with. We put our own gifts aside, much like children do when they see their friend’s or sibling’s shiney new toy.
Gratitude opens the heart and removes “stress” that comes from fear of not having:
> all that we want
> all that we think we need
> what we see others have
> what we think is due us
> what we believe will make us happy
> what we believe will make us important or loved
Giving thanks for what we have, rather than wanting and longing for things we do not have, is a simple act of love that fills us with the humble pleasure of realizing how the universe cares for us – and is taking care of us.
Even when things are difficult and we are suffering, when we take the time to reflect on all the good things we also have in our lives, we suffer less, worry less and feel happier.
Perhaps Ignatius is on to something very holistic when he encourages us to remember the biblical wisdom found in I Thessalonians 5: 18 that recommends to us – “in all things give thanks”, for in this we will find our hearts full and our fears dissolved.
Happy Thanksgiving Holiday Season,
With all good wishes,
Copyright 2010 G.Donadio